Friends Recognition in Life

Friends Recognition in Life 

 

• What are Friends?
• How we can make new friends in life?

Friends-

Friends are that key who can open every lock of problems in our life. Every one born alone and survives on this earth. When we come into this world we find a natural support system in the form of our parents. Then we find other family members, relations, relatives, by default which is fixed. But the friend is the only relation which is not by default. We need to look around, understand different people, match the point of view, and finally, after these processes we select a person in the form of a friend. This way we make friends.

Basically, there are three types of friends:

1. Hi-bye friends

  .    2.  Regular friends and

  .    3. True soul friends.

Hi-bye friends- The person whom we can say friend but we don’t know them well. For courtesy, we can say hi when seeing them or make eye contact for the first time of the day and we say bye when leaving that place for the day. Such kind of friend we can find in school, college, and office. In one word we can say the workplace where we spent our whole day between many people.

Regular friends- Regular friends are the next level of hi-bye friends. When we face such friends most of the time in a day then slowly they become our regular friends. We start sharing our work, education, and different things with them. We discuss common things regularly. Such friends are our regular friends. This friendship only remains until we work on that particular place. Their friendship may be continued or not it is difficult to say.

True soul friends- When we go to the next level of friendship we will find our true soul friends. We can also say them our best friend. The friends with whom we share our personal things, personal problems, and we can trust that they will not disclose it to others, such friends are our best friends. We can trust them blindly and tell anything to them. Finding such a friend is very difficult for us. We can find hi-bye friends, and regular friends easily but we can’t find true soul friends easily.

In search of true soul friends many people get deception or being cheated. Once the trust break, it hurts a lot. Suppose we considered a person as our true soul friend and we shared one important thing of our life with him. Unfortunately, he disclosed that thing in front of others and we feel like an insult. This condition is a hurt-breaking condition. In this situation, we can say that we got cheated in the true soul friendship.

How we can make new friends in our life

To make new friends, we should realize that the fear is in our head. We always stuck in thoughts like whether we will be liked by another person or not, how we will continue our talk, etc. The main cause of fear is our shyness. We can start a friendship with the common people whom we know already. They may be our old hi-bye friends with whom we are not in touch for a long time.

We can simply drop a message to them by saying hi. Then we can make a casual talk like how are they, where they are staying, what they are doing. If possible we can ask them to have a meet. Once we get the confidence in talking then we can try it on strangers also. Strangers can be friend's friends with whom we meet at a party or outing. If we succeed in talking with them then we are ready to make friends from anywhere in this world. With their response, we can recognize them that in which category we can count them; as a hi-bye, regular or true soul friend.